How to Pick the Right Necklace Length for You

When it comes to jewelry, even the smallest details—like necklace lengths—can transform your entire look. Finding the right necklace length isn’t just about measurements; it’s about connection. The way a chain rests on your collarbone, how it catches the light, or how a pendant falls in line with your favorite neckline—it’s all part of telling your personal story.

Whether you’re layering delicate chains for everyday wear or choosing a long beaded necklace for a bold moment, necklace size influences both comfort and style. At Made by Mary, we thoughtfully design every piece—because we know how important it is to wear something that feels just as meaningful as it looks. We believe in honoring women’s stories with elegance, sentiment, and design that celebrates every chapter.

If you’re not sure where to begin, don’t worry. This necklace length guide is here to help you measure necklace length, discover the best styles for your frame, and find the right necklace that reflects your heart and your style.

Why Necklace Length Matters

Necklace length is more than just a number on a tag—it’s about the fit, the finish, and the feeling. The chain length you choose frames your neckline, complements your outfit, and shapes your overall aesthetic. A chain that falls a few inches too high can feel restrictive, while one that hangs too low might overpower petite frames. Finding the right necklace length offers that breathing room between structure and flow—helping the piece work with your body and your clothing, not against it.

At Made by Mary, our mission is to create jewelry that brings comfort, beauty, and intention to all body types and styles. From short chokers to longer chains, every detail is crafted with your story in mind.

Standard Necklace Lengths Explained

When selecting your perfect necklace, it helps to understand how chain lengths are traditionally measured. Here's a closer look at common necklace lengths and how they work with different frames, bust sizes, and outfits.

13”–16” (Choker to Collarbone)

This necklace length sits like a choker or just along the collarbone, creating a close, minimalist fit. It’s ideal for open necklines and layering. Choker styles work beautifully on petite frames and are often seen in beaded necklaces or delicate chains meant to highlight the neck. If you love shorter lengths and layering combinations, this is your perfect starting point.

18” (Classic)

This is the most common chain length and offers a comfortable fit for most women. It typically falls a few inches below the collarbone and suits most outfits. Whether styled with pendants, charms, or worn solo, it’s a staple for everyday wear and looks beautiful on various body types. This chain wraps your story with versatility and grace.

20–22” (Mid-Length)

Sitting just inches below the collarbone, these lengths offer a little more breathing room and elegance. They’re perfect for pairing with statement pendants or layered with shorter styles. This necklace size works especially well when worn with high necklines and blouses and is flattering across a range of frames and bust types.

24” and Up (Long & Layer-Ready)

These longer lengths allow for true styling freedom. Whether you opt for a piece that can be wrapped around twice, or worn long with larger pendants, they’re great for elongating the torso. Long beaded necklaces and oversized chains fall gracefully and offer the perfect frame for bold expressions. For women who love layering and flexibility, this length feels bold and balanced.

How to Choose the Right Necklace Length for You

Choosing a necklace isn’t just about preference—it’s about personal style, body shape, and comfort. Here's how to get it just right.

Consider Your Neckline

Each neckline calls for a different length. For example, a choker pairs best with an off-the-shoulder look, while longer chains flatter turtlenecks and higher cuts. A good necklace length complements your clothing without clashing or competing.

Think About Your Face Shape

Like haircuts, necklaces help frame your features. Shorter lengths flatter oval and round faces, while longer lengths balance square or heart-shaped faces. Let your jewelry enhance the natural symmetry of your face and neckline.

Keep Your Height and Frame in Mind

Petite frames often benefit from shorter chains that sit closer to the collarbone and don’t overwhelm. For taller women or broader body types, longer lengths or statement pieces provide proportion. Choosing the right necklace is about harmony with your body—not just the trend.

Know Your Style and Intention

Your everyday wear might call for an 18” chain, while a layered look could mix 16”, 18”, and 22” lengths. Whether you love delicate details or statement pendants, let your style be your guide. The best way to measure what’s right is by what you love to wear.

Made by Mary’s Classy Necklace Pieces to Own

When it comes to choosing the right necklace, it’s not just about length—it’s about connection. At Made by Mary, we believe in creating timeless pieces that don’t just complement your outfit—they reflect your story. Whether you're seeking everyday wear, a meaningful gift, or something to layer with intention, these curated picks offer something special for every woman. 

Here are some of our favorite styles that pair beautifully with different necklace lengths and personal moments alike.

Flat Cable Charm Necklace

This sleek and charm-ready design lets you make your story your own. Available in 14k gold filled or sterling silver, this 17.25" necklace (with a 2" extender) can be customized with Link Locks and pendants. Whether you're adding a charm or wearing it solo, it's a chain that evolves with your journey.

Gloss Pendant Necklace

Featuring a sunlit, teardrop pendant on a 16–18" adjustable chain, this piece blends radiant energy with understated elegance. Crafted in gold vermeil or sterling silver, it’s perfect for women who love meaningful pieces that make a quiet statement across most outfits.

ILY Morse Code Necklace

A delicate message only they’ll understand. This 16" chain with a 1.5" extender spells “I-L-Y” in Morse code. Crafted from baguette and gem-cut CZs that glimmer like a secret between hearts. A one-of-a-kind way to say what matters most.

Toi et Moi Necklace

With an emerald CZ and a pear-shaped CZ nestled side-by-side, this 16" chain (plus 1.5" extender) is a tribute to togetherness. Ideal for layering with other pieces or worn as a standalone, it captures deep sentiment with a delicate finish.

CZ Poppy Tennis Necklace

Statement meets sophistication with this 16" necklace featuring bezel-set CZs. Available in white gold vermeil or sterling silver, it elevates any ensemble and can be layered or worn as a luxurious standalone piece.

Hera Chain Necklace – 1.9mm & 3mm

Crafted for bold elegance, the Hera Chain comes gold plated or sterling silver options, with 1.5" extender. Whether worn solo or stacked, its flat, fluid design and durable structure make it a modern-day classic.

Tips for Layering with Confidence

Want to layer like a pro? Start with a base length (like a choker or 16”), then add a classic 18” and maybe a longer 22” to complete the look. Mix textures—try a beaded necklace with a flat chain or a string of charms with a clean pendant. 

Don’t forget to measure each necklace length to create balance and breathing room. Every piece should feel like a verse in your personal song, blending into something beautiful and intentional.

Final Thoughts: Let Your Story Set the Length

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to the right necklace. Whether you prefer shorter lengths that rest gently at the collarbone or longer lengths that layer effortlessly over sweaters, it’s all about what makes you feel good. Consider your favorite chain length, your neckline, and the pendants you love—and let your instincts (and a good necklace length guide) lead the way.

At Made by Mary, we’re proud to create jewelry that honors your moments, milestones, and style. From measuring chain length to crafting heirloom-quality styles, every piece is made with love, intention, and a passion for helping women tell their stories—inch by inch, layer by layer.